GOT GOALS?
Last month in our teleseminar we discussed how writing could help to increase life satisfaction through the process of goal-setting. While not everyone finds goal-setting helpful, check out these ideas and see if they work for you!
THINK OF GOAL-SETTING AS A MAGNET
Your brain works like a computer. What you program into your "computer" is what you think about.
Through a process called reticular activating system, you are drawn to those things you are most conscious of. This means your brain filters out things you are not focused on. By the same token, your brain attracts thoughts you are focused on. By writing down your goals, you are keeping them in the forefront of your thoughts. This focus makes you more apt to draw to you, what you want.
Let's say for example that you are working on a project, a new chapter in your novel or a short story and are feeling a little stuck. You've just written down your goal of completing this project by a certain date. You wander through a bookstore and suddenly it seems ideas are everywhere! You have fired up your reticular activating system, seemingly magnetizing ideas to you.
USE WRITTEN LOGS TO BOOST YOUR PROGRESS
You may be familiar with the weight loss studies that prove writing down what you eat helps you lose weight faster than if you recorded nothing. Why is this so?
When you write down everything you eat you are helping yourself to stay focused. If you are honestly logging or tracking in writing everything you eat, you are much more likely to get to your weight goal.
Let's say you want to lose five pounds by the beginning of summer. You pass a bakery and see an incredibly delicious looking brownie, just staring at you from the bakery window. You say to yourself, "Oh, just one can't hurt." Then you remember your promise to yourself to write down everything you eat. You pause for a moment, knowing you don't want to have to look at your log and see that brownie written down tomorrow morning.
Or, you notice you are feeling a little down about how slowly your weight loss has been going. But then you decide to check your daily food log and the weight log you dutifully maintain weekly. You see how close you are getting to your weight goal and get inspired to keep going!
MAKE NOTES ALONG THE WAY
Sometimes a goal deadline is a long way off and you are not feeling particularly motivated to make progress. You have some ideas floating around in your head, but you tell yourself it's "too early," to bother with them.
Stop! Learn the technique of making notes as you go. Create what is known as a grass catcher---a file (computer or hard copy or both), notebook or even a drawer to begin collecting ideas and data.
This method helps to prime the pump for later. When you actually sit down to work on your goal or project, you already have a head start.
For example, I keep photo and letter albums for my granddaughter, sending her pages as I complete them. Sometimes it's difficult to look at a blank page and begin when I actually sit down to work on this project. But by keeping notes on ideas, photos I especially like and ideas for stories I want to share with her, sitting down and creating is a lot more inviting with a few ideas and pictures already collected.
Will writing down your goals, tracking your progress and collecting and writing down ideas as they come to you help you accomplish your goals?
Try it and find out for yourself!
Take care,
If you find yourself needing help managing your creative process contact me and
request a GRATIS SESSION via phone or in
person. Phone (800) 552-WRITE, that's (800)
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ABOUT SUSAN BORKIN
Susan Borkin, M.A. is a licensed psychotherapist,
coach and writer. She is the founder
of Write Now! a professional practice
specializing in the use of writing for
personal and professional growth. Susan
specializes in helping people overcome
creative blocks and achieve deep personal
transformation through the use of writing.
A personal growth writing teacher for
more than twenty-five years, she is the
author of When
Your Heart Speaks, Take Good Notes: The
Healing Power of Writing and Writing
From the Inside Out: Using a Journal
for Personal Growth & Transformation.
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